Episode 106 · Fatherhood

Building Critical Thinking in Kids Using Quality TV

Guest: Corin LongThe SkilledDad Podcast

About This Episode

Zach talks with UK producer and podcaster Corin Long (host of Beyond the Broom Cupboard, a show about the people behind kids' television) about turning screen time into a parenting tool instead of a babysitter. Corin makes the case that engaging kids with how their shows are actually made — the voice actors, animators, and directors behind them — plants early "media literacy" and critical thinking skills that matter more than ever in a world of YouTube, AI, deepfakes, and conspiracy theories. The two also compare notes on UK shared parental leave, the challenge of not being a "naggy" parent (and how tone carries more than words), and the joy of watching kids grow through sports. Corin's core parenting metaphor: kids aren't remote-control cars you steer, they're wind-up toys you set loose and only nudge back when they near the edge of the table. The throughline is family-first, hands-on parenting: give kids quality inputs and the skills to think for themselves, then let them go.

What You'll Take Away

01

Screen time is best used as a parenting tool, not a babysitter — pick quality, educational content and engage with it actively (ask questions, play games tied to the show, extend it into imaginative play).

02

Talking to kids about how a show is made — the people, craft, and intent behind it — quietly teaches media literacy and critical thinking they'll need for YouTube, AI, deepfakes, and misinformation later.

03

Tone carries the message more than words.

Dropping your pitch signals "this means business" without being mean; a higher, sweeter tone often gets ignored.

04

Parent kids like wind-up toys, not remote-control cars: give them quality inputs and guardrails, let them do their own thing, and only nudge them back when they get near the edge.

05

Growth comes from getting on a good team — for kids on the field and for dads surrounding themselves with other men who are learning.

The team lifts each other more than any single coach does.

06

Critical thinking skills have to be nurtured no matter when a kid is exposed to the wider world (13, 16, or 28) — you can't control the timing, only the preparation.

I kind of viewed them a bit as a remote control car... but they're more like a wind up toy that you have to wind up and the moment they're born, you put them in the middle of the table and they hop around... if it gets near the edge of the table, just gently nudge it back in the right spot.
— Corin

Put It Into Practice

Pick one show your kids already watch and turn it into an active game this week (e.g. "guess the engine" 20-questions with Thomas, or quiz each other on marine facts from Octonauts).

Next time you watch a show together, point out one behind-the-scenes fact — "a real person voices this character, animators drew this" — to start planting media literacy.

Audit what counts as "consumed" screen time vs. "chill" screen time in your house and make sure the consumed portion is educational and age-appropriate.

Practice dropping your tone (not your temperature) when a request needs to become a firm instruction; try it once this week and note the difference in response.

Ask your kids about the YouTube/videos they watch on their own and talk through "who made this and why" once, to model discernment.

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