Episode 014 · Fatherhood

Two Weeks and 10 Minutes: My Dad on Skills, Faith, and Never Quitting

Guest: Greg ReeserThe SkilledDad Podcast

About This Episode

This is a milestone episode (1,000 downloads) where Zach sits down with his own father, Greg Reeser — confirmed as Zach's dad in the transcript. Greg shares his story growing up as an Illinois farmer, learning hands-on skills from his father and grandfather, surviving multiple childhood surgeries for a cleft lip, and a turbulent adult life that took him from farming to a gas station, to a cross-country trucking stint after the LA riots, to Tennessee where the family upholstery business (Custom Resources) still runs today. The episode mixes practical hard-skill talk (which tools every man should own, how to read a tape measure) with hard-won life philosophy: have faith, have patience, work hard, and never quit. Greg also opens up about caring for his wife Leslie through illness until her death, and how restoring the treehouse he built for her has become a healing project. For a dad, this is a reminder to pass down both the hands-on skills and the resilience that gets you through the hard seasons.

What You'll Take Away

01

"Two weeks and 10 minutes" — stop overthinking, just start.

Greg's metaphor: you'll mull a project for two weeks when the actual work takes minutes. Make the list, then go do the thing you actually want to do.

02

Faith, patience, and hard work are the resilience formula.

Greg names faith as the number-one tool in his bag, followed by patience and hard work — the ingredients that carried him through bankruptcy, job loss, and grief.

03

Hard skills are learned by doing, and they're worth passing down.

Greg learned welding at seven, built his first car as a teen, and now uses 45-year-old tools inherited from his grandpa and dad. Doing the axle/lug-nut repair turned a $1,000 job into a hundred bucks.

04

Perspective beats self-pity.

As a 10-year-old in the hospital, Greg sat with a badly burned boy next door and realized everybody has something — don't trap yourself in a cocoon where you can't see other people's burdens.

05

Failure leads forward.

"When it's going south, you'll probably find the bus going east." Speed up on the way down so you bounce higher.

06

Connect with people through sincere questions.

Greg's gift for talking to anyone — and Zach's — started at the gas station counter with old farmers; ask with sincerity and people open up.

Idle hands are the devil's workshop. Just keep them doing something.
— Greg Reeser

Put It Into Practice

Pick one project you've been "thinking about for two weeks" and give it your 10 minutes today — start it.

Build a starter toolbox with the basics Greg named: a hammer, a multipack of pliers (regular + needle-nose + side cutters), an adjustable (Crescent) wrench, a power drill with a bit set, a tape measure, and liquid wrench.

Learn (and teach your kids) how to read a tape measure down to the eighth-inch — "a little is a lot."

Tackle one hands-on repair you'd normally pay for. Find a friend who knows how, or look into a rent-a-bay shop if you don't have space/tools.

Sit down and record or simply have a real conversation with your own dad (or a father figure) while you have the time — ask him his story.

One Email a Week. Worth Your Time.

Practical skills, real stories, and one thing to actually do this week with your family. Written by a dad in the trenches, not a marketing department.

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